Shrusthi rejoined her work post her maternity leaves. Her son is 8months old now. A small lovely family of three persons, Shrusthi, Aarav (husband) and, a sweet little son Ryan. She is working in a good position with one of the telecom companies and Aarav is head of Marketing with one of the IT firms. Ryan now started staying comfortable with the caretaker.
Today Shrusthi is preparing to go to her office after a long time, but she is feeling anxious, though she was showing everything is normal with her. There were many questions in her mind which started from the day she rejoined. On the one hand, she was feeling that she should give more time to Ryan, on the other hand, she felt that it is important for her to be financially independent and grow in her career. Juggling between office, home, Child, and thoughts, Shrusthi started feeling irritable. Aarav was trying to help her at home, but sometimes due to his busy schedule, he uses to feel tired and sleep early.

Shrusthi unable to control her emotions, started having sleepless nights, she uses to cry for hours and use to feel tired all the time. Aarav was understanding the situation and he decided to speak to her. This weekend he helped her to prepare breakfast and both of them relaxing in the balcony while Ryan was with Nanny.

After discussing the problems Shrushthi felt relaxed and she felt positive.

How they understood the problem and came to a solution, they decided:

Shrushthi needs to be kind to herself. They asked for help from their parents so that should be mentally relaxed for Ryan.
Imperfect is new perfect: It’s okay if the home is not clean or you have not made a bed, or you are not looking your best for a meeting, it is perfectly fine. If you will always try to be perfect in everything, you may feel agitated and leave a positive frame of mind.
Love yourself: Make some time for your hobbies, beautician appointment. Do whatever makes you happy. Let the husband take care of the entire home for the time you are mentally relaxing.
Ignore Negative People: Yes, we have such people in the family who may be not in favour of whatever you decide or may not be happy with your progress, but trust your decision and go ahead. Ignore the negative thoughts.

Shruthi and Aarav follow these steps. When are you following?

Lot’s Of Love,
Ruchi Rao