Choti Si Baat Per Dil Se…

Choti Si Baat Per Dil Se…

Kuch Toh log khenge logo ka kaam hai khena, choro bekar ki baton ko kahin beet na jaaye rehna “ aah such a beautiful song with an amazing and deep meaning.
When I was doing “ Art of living “ happiness program they thought us beautiful rules of life, one of them was “ Don’t be a football of other people opinions “ very positive words but when it comes to implementing it’s a real challenge.
Once again I am here with a beautiful story of Mullah Nasruddin and his Son.
One day Mullah Nasruddin and his son were travelling, Nasruddin like to walk while his son was riding a donkey. While travelling, they come a crossed a group of people, one of them passed a comment “look, that boy is so mean he is riding a donkey while his old father is walking that is so thoughtless. What a shameless kid!”
Nasruddin’s son felt embarrassed and decided to walk and asked Nasruddin to please ride on a donkey. As they continue to move ahead after a few hours, they were passing by a village where they saw a group of villager talking about them “oh that’s so shameful!” One of them exclaimed. “That poor young boy is walking while his father is riding a donkey! What an unkind parent!”
Nasruddin was very upset after listening to people thoughts and comments. He just wished to avoid any more comments, so he decided that both Nasruddin and his son will ride on a donkey and will travel. As they move ahead on their way, they meet another group of people. And this time the comment was “That man and his son are so cruel.” One person said, “ just look at these people they are being so pitiless towards a donkey, they should have been punished for being unkind to a donkey.
Nasruddin heard this and told his son, “I guess the only way we can avoid all these opinions of people is by walking.” I think you are right.” the son replied. Once again they started walking and this time as they were passing by another group of people, they heard them laughing. “ Ha, ha-ha.” And made fun of Nasruddin and his son. “Look at those two fools, they are so stupid that both of them are walking in this burning hot day neither son nor his father is riding on a donkey! What a fool!”
Moral of the story- If you are doing what other people want you to do, neither you nor will they be happy. People will never stop judging you.
So, “Don’t be a football of other person’s opinion “.
Lots Of Love
Poonam